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Chongyang Etiquette

Traditional customs and respectful behaviors for honoring elders on Double Ninth Festival.

Honoring Elders

  • β€’ Visit parents and grandparents with gifts and greetings
  • β€’ Help with household chores or spend quality time together
  • β€’ Prepare special meals for elderly family members
  • β€’ Listen to their stories and show genuine care and respect
  • β€’ Take photos together to create lasting memories

Gift Etiquette

πŸ₯ƒ Chrysanthemum Wine

Traditional drink for the festival, symbolizing longevity

🌸 Chrysanthemums

Fresh chrysanthemums for health and good fortune

🍜 Chongyang Cake

Layered cake symbolizing progress and advancement

πŸ‘” Health Products

Gifts promoting health and wellness for seniors

Proper Behavior

  • β€’ Show respect through attentive listening
  • β€’ Address elders with proper titles and honorifics
  • β€’ Serve food and drinks to elders first
  • β€’ Avoid arguing or disagreeing loudly in their presence
  • β€’ Offer help without being asked when seeing difficulties

Festival Activities

  • β€’ Go hiking or climbing together (yang activities)
  • β€’ Appreciate chrysanthemums in gardens or parks
  • β€’ Drink chrysanthemum tea or wine together
  • β€’ Fly kites (traditional activity)
  • β€’ Eat蟹 and drink wine for health

Traditional Wisdom

Chongyang Festival reminds us to cherish our elders while we can. The Chinese character "yang" (阳) represents yang energy and vitality - spending time with elders brings blessings and good fortune.